Monday, June 11, 2012

This is absolutely a story
Every day - at the same time - she waits for him...
He comes... and they go for a walk
Wouldn't it be great if we all had friends like this...no words needed...
they just intuitively recognize the value of each other in their lives and act accordingly.

Why should a Jew become a Mormon? Ask Marlena

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The proverbial “third rail” issue for a Christian blogger on a Jewish website is Jewish conversion to Christianity. It is one of the few issues that unites practically all Jews, and well-funded organizations (e.g., Jews for Judaism) have been set up to keep Jews from converting. Although many Jews who know me well have asked why a Jew would become a Mormon, I have declined to blog on the subject because I considered it too sensitive.
Until now. After more than two years blogging for the Jewish Journal, I’m pretty confident that readers know that my purpose in writing this column is not to convert Jews. A few weeks ago a prominent Jewish leader asked me why Jews decide to become Mormons. I decided to pose a series of questions to my friend Marlena Tanya Muchnick, a well-known Jew-turned-Mormon speaker, author, and researcher. Marlena travels around the country making presentations on Jews and Mormons. I am grateful to her for taking time out from her Baltic cruise to compose her answers. She and her wonderful husband Daniel live in the Seattle area.
Q: How old were you when you converted to the LDS Church?
A: I often contemplated the gifts promised the human family in the Tree of Life mentioned in Genesis 2. The Hebrew life giving tree motif I found in a copy of Kabbalah (esoteric Judaic writings). It stirred in me a deep curiosity about the mysterious connections of all things in earth and heaven. I read of covenants, oaths, the patterns and behaviors of men –blessings received, curses endured. Always the connection of God to His children was tested and tried. The Hebrew people have always been engaged in a love story (often also a tryst!) with their Father/Lord. So, in a fashion, I was being spiritually prepared for my transformation at age 47 – from Orthodox/Conservative Jewess to a temple-attending Latter-day Saint.
Q: Jews believe the Abrahamic covenant still applies to them. Mormons also believe that the Abrahamic covenant is applicable today. Why is there a need for a Jew to become a Mormon if the Abrahamic covenant is still alive and well?
A: Being raised an observant Jewess, I trusted that the everlasting Avrahamic Covenant (Genesis 12, 15, 17, and 28) was the blueprint for every life. An agreement between mankind and God, it is unconditional in its nature to bless the tribes of Israel (see Genesis 12:2-3). Nations and kings were to descend from that patriarch who would become father of a “great nation”, receiving special blessings for their faithfulness, including the Mashiach’s (Messiah’s) return into their midst. Many Jews believe in these future events but have little idea of the profound meanings implicit in them. Spiritual truth often lies in mystery, but to ignore that tantalizing search is to remain dead to the potential for life that waits hopefully within each soul.
Fortunately for me, through the teachings of the missionaries, I discovered that Mormons understand covenants better than anyone, because they realize the importance and urgency of gathering members of the house of Israel through the restored, latter-day Gospel teachings as reintroduced through the Prophet Joseph Smith; his translation of the Book of Mormon, the Doctrine and Covenants of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and the restoration of the temples of God to the earth.
[According to LDS belief] Jews are the “chosen” people according to God’s covenant with Abraham. [Mormons believe that] Abraham wanted to regain the true priesthood and gospel principles that had been lost through apostasy. But neither the Jews nor anyone else can be automatically saved. The Latter-day Saints have been charged with finding those who are lost and teaching them the essential news of the restoration of ancient priesthood powers which God has covenanted to them unconditionally on His part. But individual faithfulness and action are required to bring fulfillment. [I believe that] Judaism is the foundation of Christianity, not the final product.
       
Q: What was it that attracted you to Mormonism?
A: How does a proper Jewess cross the seemingly uncrossable line to Christianity, then venture further to the hallowed country of the Gentilic, gentle Saints? For me, it was the hardest work my rebellious soul has EVER done! I was 14 and just confirmed from Hebrew school when I realized something was missing from my synagogue experiences. My parents thought me mad. I was told to get over it. It was 1954.
Arriving at age 40 I found myself alone and poor, a victim of many abuses as a child and teen. During my growing years as a female in a traditionally male cultural setting, I sought in the synagogues for a deeper and especially a personal solace. Synagogue prayers are praises to God and petitions for Israel - our traditional way of approaching Deity. But I needed a personal witness. Finally, pleading with God before the opened Torah scrolls, I challenged Him to bring me what He knew I needed; then I determined to find it myself, if it took this lifetime to do so.  It took several years longer.
My only sibling, a younger brother, eventually accepted the Gospel more or less against his will. Mark had married a Tongan whose father translated the Book of Mormon into Tongan for the country’s royalty. Mark’s wife and family were, of course, devoted Mormons.  In 1975, he brought me a Book of Mormon, to share the joy in the Gospel that he had found. I immediately rejected it.“I have Torah. Why would I need another book? No, thanks. I prefer to remain a Jew. Is this what our people have fought to become?  I think not.” I put the book in my bookcase and left it there for years. Many years later, in 1985, I moved to Oregon from L.A. to assist with care for my now widowed brother’s children. Senior Mormon missionaries lived next door!
I was quite disturbed by this new and sudden interest of these Christian people in my background and my beliefs as a Jew. Having been taught by my parents that non-Jews (Gentiles) were off limits to me, I’d never learned Christian ways or beliefs.  They couldn’t pronounce the gutteral ch. They didn’t like Jewish food, they didn’t know Hebrew history or celebrate any Jewish holidays. But I was attracted to them in ways that stirred my soul.
1. I found those Mormons I met and who befriended me to be genuinely caring about each and every person and were gentle and forgiving folk. They were genuinely kind to me and they related all their life experiences to faith and love of God and Christ. What impressed me so much was their close relationship with God. That gave them satisfaction I had only dreamt of finding. They listened to my denials of Christ, asked me about Judaism, and were genuinely interested in comparing religions through scripture and through their own understanding. And then there was the “look” in their eyes. Was it joy? True happiness? Their constant relationship with the mysterious Holy Spirit? I wanted it!
2. They patiently spoke of New Testament gospel writers, pointing out that most were Jewish men, including the apostles of Christ. I had never thought that important. I confess that at first I only allowed them to entertain me with these things because my brother had earlier brought me that book which claimed our ancient Jewish ancestors truly came from Israel to these American continents and – would you believe – accepted Jesus as the Christ? They told me that Jesus came to fulfill the Law of Moses (Matt 5:17) and create a new covenant between God and his people, that he visited the American continents (Book of Mormon, 3Nephi 11-28). The Book of Mormon is a sign that the gathering of Israel and the fulfillment of his covenants with them was beginning.
3. These apostles learned there was a higher law than the Aaronic/ Levitical priesthood: the higher or Melchizedek priesthood. This man, Melchizedek (Heb 7:2) was a notable prophet and leader who lived about 2000 BC. He was the first individual to be given the title of Kohen (priest) in Torah. Father Abraham paid tithes to him. Melchizedek is mentioned in many places in Torah and in latter-day scripture. Mormons claim that these two priesthoods have been restored in our day, along with prophets, temples, baptism and other ordinances by priesthood authority, the laying on of hands for the gift of the Holy Ghost and other blessings, and proxy work for the dead. I was finding a unity between our two faiths; that we are connected by many things. Mormons have more in common with Judaism than any other religion because Judaism laid the foundation for Christianity and through the LDS church the fullness of many covenants God made with the nation of Israel will be realized. These include the Abrahamic (Gen 12:1-3, 15), Edenic (Gen 3:16-19), Palestinian (Deut 30:1-10), Davidic (2Sam 7:8-16, Luke 1:32-34), and the New Covenant (Jer 31:31-34).
4. I was attracted to the notion that prophets and seers were once again on the earth. In Torah many prophets are mentioned, some true, some false.  The greater ones were usually disbelieved and hated for their unpopular messages. Some met with an untimely death. The last Hebrew prophet, Malachi, lived at the end of the 70-year Babylonian exile. Judaism today does not recognize anyone as having the voice to speak for them. But the Mormons claim Joseph Smith was a prophet and seer and that these chosen men of God will never again be taken from the earth. Thomas S. Monson is regarded as the current seer and prophetic voice among the Saints and he has two counselors. Together they form the First Presidency of the church. Their writings, in my mind, equal and often surpass those of many scholarly Talmudic sages.
5. The Mormon view of the afterlife attracted me greatly. Jews believe there is an Olam Haba – the world to come after death. Torah [the 5 books of Moses] emphasizes immediate, concrete, physical rewards and punishments rather than abstract future ones. See, for example, Lev. 26:3-9 and Deut. 11:13-15. However, there is clear evidence in Torah of belief in existence after death. Indicated in several places the righteous with their loved ones will be reunited after death, while the wicked will be excluded. Ideas about resurrection and reincarnation are accepted, but there is much room for personal opinion, because Torah does not mention this subject directly, though the early temples practiced cleansing and vivifying rites. I was very concerned with what hope there was for mine and my family’s death. Mormons have revealed knowledge through prophets that explains and clarifies much about the spirit world before and after mortal life, and I found it reassuring.
6. The missionaries read with me the Book of Mormon, enlightening my understanding of the Abrahamic Covenant.
Q: According to one of your websites, you engaged in five months of “secluded studying” of Hebrew and LDS scriptures before converting. What did you learn from this experience?
 
A: I learned, in essence, through totally independent study and prayer that the Gospel as taught in the LDS church is completely correct. I found my personal answers to the questions: Why am I here? Where did I come from? Where am I going?
There is room here for several specific examples.
1. I learned about the priesthood of God, its purposes, duties and ministrations. See Exodus 40, a detailed account of Aaron and his sons receiving the Aaronic priesthood. After the fall of Herod’s Temple in 70 AD, that and the greater priesthood were lost, the Jewish nation scattered. In these latter days that most precious gift has been restored to the earth and all of us are blessed through the Aaronic and Melchizedek priesthood of God in these latter days.
2. Exodus 34 gives the story of Moses (Moshe) receiving God’s commandments. Moses asks the Lord to pardon the iniquity of his people, to which the Lord replies in part (v.14) that the Jews shall have no other god but the Lord, “…whose name is Jealous…”  All others are said to be false, and to Jews, that includes Jesus.  But the New Testament history of Jesus and his times is compelling. He converted thousands of Jewish followers.  This is not mentioned in Torah or Talmud. Why not?
3. When the missionaries told me that Joseph Smith received his visitation from our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ in April of 1820 and that the LDS church was established in April of 1830, I discovered these dates coincided with the Jewish Passover. Joseph’s visit by the angel, Moroni, and additionally when he visited the place the golden plates were buried and retrieved them four years later -  these occurrences came during the annual Feast of Sukkot in September, 1823 and the Jewish New Year of 1827. Coincidences? These and numerous other occasions in LDS history helped to convince me that the history of Jews and Mormons was intertwined in the mind and heart of God and an important clue to my understanding of how God works with mankind.
4. I learned through the Book of Mormon that God spoke directly to the descendants of the Jewish people in America, introducing them to Jesus Christ, His only Begotten Son. Since I do believe that God is in charge and can do as He wishes, I understood and accepted that the history of the Jews in the lands of America included the visitation and teachings of Christ in the Americas. In the Doctrine and Covenants, Section 29:31-33, I read that Heavenly Father’s works are without end. This made sense to me.
5. I learned that both religions honor their ancestors and place them in high esteem. Both believe in the principle of fasting and both have a set of dietary laws that are sensible and spiritually conceived by Deity. Both religions honor God and His commandments. Both revere and celebrate the Sabbath and believe in keeping it holy. There are many similarities between Jewish and LDS beliefs and religious observances, but much has been lost of ancient truths through time.
6. Ezekiel 37 in part refers to the prophecy of combining the “two sticks”, that of Joseph, by which is meant the Book of Mormon, with the stick (record)of Judah – meaning the Old Testament or Hebrew Bible –. The LDS “quad” contains those scriptures in one volume that also includes more scripture, much of it dictated by Jesus Christ to the Prophet Joseph Smith. I learned that this is a further evidence of the message for unity between Mormons and Jews.
7. The Book of Mormon opened my eyes to profound teachings, truths about the history of my Hebrew ancestors in the Americas, the true nature of the spirit of mankind, Jesus in America. It is testimony to how the Holy Ghost works in our lives, the divinity of Jesus Christ and presents undeniable evidence that the book was translated by the gift and power of God. It is truly a second witness of Jesus Christ and contains the fullness of the Gospel that Jesus tried to teach the Jews in Israel millennia ago. I could not deny its truthfulness. The Holy Ghost testified of these things to me in an undeniable way, even to the extent of giving me a vision, words from an angelic source, and a transformation of spirit.
8. Importantly, I discovered the Doctrine and Covenants, a book of scriptures containing revelations from the Lord Jesus Christ to the Prophet Joseph Smith. This book amazed me. It is not a translation but claims to be a witness of Jesus Christ. Indeed, as I read the first section, dictated to Joseph by the Lord Himself, I was amazed that I had not known of this book. I now had the problem of believing or denying that Jesus was indeed the Messiah of the world! The book proclaims that the heavens are open again. It contains revelations for LDS church governance and the essential beliefs of the organization of the Saints. While reading it I realized the voice of Jesus was the same voice I read and felt in Torah. Now it became impossible to deny that Jesus was the one who made the Exodus from Egypt possible.
9. The Pearl of Great Price is another enlightening collection of scripture that is invaluable in understanding the way Heavenly Father works with humanity. The Joseph Smith history is also undeniably true, and from it I learned of the First Vision. The book of Moses and book of Abraham teach the doctrine of plurality of gods. I read about the doctrine of exaltation and learned of its significance to us. Jewish canon does not include any of the information found in the Pearl…  This is a vast treasure trove of information that really opened my eyes to the mysteries of God.
10. The most important thing I discovered in my reading, pondering and praying was that God is in charge. Consistently, in all scripture, He tells us that. He does what He wants in His time. He is not subject to human rules or traditions, whims, requests, threats, pleadings, etc.

Q: You’ve said that personal revelation has inspired you to facilitate mutual understanding between Jews and Mormons. In what ways do you do this?
A: My mission, bestowed upon me in 1989 under a priesthood calling, was to “be as an Esther to my people” by bringing the Jews to God’s true church, mainly through the tribe of Ephraim –  the preponderance of members of the LDS church are of that tribal affiliation. I am to teach them about the genesis of their religion and how to fellowship and understand their Jewish neighbors, thereby to “help them come to the salvation of their souls through their Mashiach, Jeshua, even Jesus their Christ.”
 
To this end I have embarked upon a mission:  writing books for the Mormon reading public: about my conversion to the church, about the Jewish people -  their history, beliefs, culture and language. I also have published fiction that highlights their plight in America and in Eastern Europe.  I give firesides, lectures and classes to LDS congregations on these subjects, as well as maintaining several blog and websites featuring many useful articles on Jewish life. I point out the many similarities and connections (see listing) between the two religions and cultures. I tell my audiences to reach out to their Jewish neighbors, embracing their culture and making as many connections as possible with them in various settings.
Q: Has the Jewish community been receptive to your work? How do Mormons react to your presentations?
A: The work that I do is strictly for the LDS population. Jews do not want me to speak to their congregations because I have embraced Christianity, though many Jews are fond of Mormons. Having a Jew convert to “the other side” of the Jewish world and, in effect, become a “Gentile” (a non-Jew) is anathema to a Jew. My conversion makes them very uncomfortable.
Happily, those to whom I have spoken and written are very pleased with my books, blogs and presentations. Many Mormons are genuinely interested in their Jewish neighbors and have lots of questions I help them to answer. I tell them I am only a messenger. They must do the real work of investigating and understanding to make the connections.
Q: You’ve written “A Mormon’s Guide to Judaism.“What is one thing that every Mormon should know about Judaism? What should every Jew know about Mormonism?
A: Through the years I have asked many fellow Jews why they do not wish to believe in Christ. Their responses span their range of involvement in religious worship. By far, their responses included an avowed devotion to Judaism alone - showing little or no interest in any other religion. I have also noticed that relatively few Mormons have any more than a surface understanding of other religions and do not investigate the similarities and differences between their religion. This puts them in the same category with most Jews.
So, in my view, it is essential that Latter-day Saints become aware of the underpinnings of their belief system; Jesus was a Jew. The original Gospel evolved through Mosaic Law. Judaism is the language and belief system that propelled Christianity into being, though it was soon and continually corrupted by many factors. A knowledge of Jewish prayers, group and individual worship, holidays, culture, language, dietary laws and other elements of their sub-civilization should be sought after by the LDS population. This will increase Mormon understanding and appreciation of their own religious life.
As for my first people, I would advise them of the many similarities of the Hebrew religion and current Jewish congregations to LDS ways of life and urge them to investigate these. The Jews are increasingly positive about the LDS church and generally believe Mormons to be helpful, accepting, loyal, supporting and who accept their Israelite progenitors as brethren without prejudice or anti-Semitism. That is especially helpful in the present dangerous political situation in Israel and elsewhere in the world. I would ask them to consider learning of Christ with an inquiring and searching spirit, rather than to be forever satisfied with their centuries-long traditions.  I think that the Jewish people in the main resist Christianity because of centuries of persecution, forced conversions and ostracism.
It is important for the Jewish people to understand that the ancient tribal identities and relationships have been restored; that those who are descendants of the Hebrews enslaved in Egypt, Babylon, etc. , and now scattered throughout the earth – are in the process of being gathered again, according to ancient prophecy (Isa 54:7, Ezek 11:17, Jer 50:4 and others). The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints pursues the literal gathering of Israel throughout the world and the restoration of all the tribes (families) of Jacob prior to the coming of the Mashiach. The fullness of the early Gospel taught by our first prophets is here upon the earth today and available to each of us. Without the birthright tribe (holding the priesthood keys through Christ and his church) of Ephraim, the lineage of Judah (protector of the temples and the people) is as a sword of undirected energy.
Q: You speak often on the symbolic connections between Mormon and Jewish worship. What is the most important connection?
A: That is an easy answer. It would be our holy temples, those that once stood in Jerusalem and those built by the Latter-day Saints. It was and is now Beit YHVH or YHWH, the house of the Lord. The history of the temple in Jerusalem begins in 957 BC with King Solomon’s construction. It was destroyed and rebuilt twice more. It was the center of Jewish civilization and all things in life revolved around that holy shrine built to God.  In the temple, offerings were made, blessings and benedictions pronounced,  ritual cleansings performed. Isaiah spoke of the importance of prayer in the Temple, calling it God’s “holy mountain”. The loss of the temple in a.d. 70 brought on the Diaspora of the Jews which has lasted to this day. Jews believe they no longer have a temple in which to worship, but that is no longer the case.
The first temple structure built by the Mormon people was in Kirtland, Ohio. It was dedicated in March 1836 and the Lord accepted it. As of May 2012 there are 137 operating, 15 under construction, 14 announced temples. See http://www.ldschurchtemples.com/temples/.
These houses of the Lord are clear and direct links between Judaism and the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. They provide a place set apart for eternal covenants, a place that is sacred and suitable for the performing of holy ordinances that bind on earth and heaven. They provide ordinances for living and dead that assures the possession and association of families, worlds without end and exaltation for ourselves and our families in the kingdom of God. They contain emblems of ancient Judaic worship. When I first saw these, my heart jumped and I knew I had finally “come home”.  LDS temples are based on the fact of the atonement of Jesus Christ, without whom all mankind would be irretrievably lost. In ancient and modern times, the “work” done in Mormon temples is binding, the “glory and honour” referred to in Psalm 8:3:
“When I consider thy heavens, the work of thy fingers, the moon and the stars, which thou hast ordained; What is man, that thou art mindful of him? …For thou hast made him a little lower than the angels, and hast crowned him with glory and honour” .
[At the suggestion of Jewish Journal editors, a few edits have been made to Marlena’s interview in order to clarify Judaism’s beliefs]

Thursday, March 22, 2012

Glen the Squirrel

Glen the Squirrel
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The Moral of This Story is the Best Part!


Debby Cantlon, who plans to release Glen, the young squirrel, back into the wild, bottle-fed the infant squirrel after it was brought to her house.
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When Cantlon took in the tiny creature and began caring for him, she found herself with an unlikely nurse's aide: her pregnant Papillion, Mademoiselle Giselle.cid:3.2528723417@web161605.mail.bf1.yahoo.com
Glen was resting in a nest in a cage just days before Giselle was due to deliver her puppies. Cantlon and her husband watched as the dog dragged the squirrel's cage twice to her own bedside before she gave birth.

Cantlon was concerned, yet ultimately decided to allow the squirrel out and the inter-species bonding began.
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Glen rides a puppy mosh pit of sorts, burrowing in for warmth after feeding, eventually working his way beneath his new litter mates.
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Two days after giving birth, mama dog Giselle allowed Glen to nurse; family photos and a videotape show her encouraging him to suckle alongside her litter of five pups. Now, Glen mostly uses a bottle, but still snuggles with his 'siblings' in a mosh pit of puppies, rolling atop their bodies, and sinking in deeply for a nap.
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Glen and his new litter mates, five Papillion puppies, get along together as if they were meant to.
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Glen naps after feeding.
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Glen makes himself at home with his new litter mates, nuzzling nose-to-nose for a nap after feeding.


Send this along to brighten someone's day!
Wouldn't it be nice if we could all get along
like Glen and the gang?

MORAL OF THE STORY: Keep loving everyone, even the squirrelly ones!

Saturday, March 17, 2012

Radiant Roof Sheathing & Tankless Water Heaters

 
Radiant Roof Sheathing & Tankless Water Heaters

The seasons of winter and summer are very hard for the cooling and the heating systems of anyone’s house. The electricity bills can be very high as the systems try to provide us with a comfortable living condition, while trying to cope up with the heat or the cold. People who have invested in the real estate sector in Hamptons will benefit from installing both roof sheathing (radiant) and water heaters (tankless). These two products will not only help you to achieve a favorable living condition at home, but they will also help in reducing the electricity bills.

Radiant Roof Sheathing

People who live in the Upper Eastern coast have to live with harsh weather conditions, as they have to face prolonged winters with dry and cold weather. In my experience, I have seen that people in this part of the world benefit a lot from installing radiant barriers on their roofs. These barriers (made from aluminum sheeting) can be placed below the sheathing of the roof, as a precaution against intense temperatures. They can reduce the heat absorbed by the roof, which can increase the workload of the air conditioners in the house - I’ve done multiple installations inside Hampton’s Homes, and this argument remains steadfast. In other words, it’s clear that these sheathings can help the air conditioners, by decreasing the excess heat accumulated on the roof. 

The energy consumption of the house will automatically be lowered, when people use these barriers. The heating and cooling of the house can be achieved in a more environment friendly way, as the carbon emission by the heating and cooling devices will be drastically reduced. Also, the entire house will have a uniform temperature, making it an ideal place to live. 

Tankless Water Heaters

Even though it could be a bit expensive at the beginning, In most of the houses I have worked on, people have immensely benefited from installing tankless water heaters. Yes, people would need to make a substantial amount of initial investment but in the long run I have seen that people save a lot of money by installing these heaters. These heaters are highly energy efficient, as they do not have to store water to heat it; rather they heat water as and when needed. This helps in saving a lot of energy, as there is no heat loss, which is caused by stored water.

Hence, there is no need to install a tank with these heaters and they use comparatively lesser energy for heating water. In my experience, these heaters are a great long-term investment as they can help people save money in energy bills. In fact, people can save more than half the money, which they pay in electricity bills, while using traditional heaters.

The radiant roof sheathing and the tankless water heaters are ideal for anyone who is looking to make smart and cost efficient home improvements. 
 (i.e. - Sam is a writer for http://fmarquitv.tumblr.com and advocate for home improvement...)

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

BE SLOW TO ANGER


I have a story to tell all of the parents out there, this is for me as a parent also…
The title is an old adage… BE SLOW TO ANGER
There was a little boy his age was approximately 6 to 7, he was awaiting his father’s arrival from work eagerly. He loved his father he was his favorite hero there was no one better. As his father pulled into the driveway the son jumped with excitement after all for a young child the end of a day never comes soon enough. As his father got out of his beautiful new car, his son greeted him arms spread wide they clutched and held each other the father picking his son up and rocking back and forth. Then he set his son down and head to the house, settling in his favorite chair to read the newspaper before dinner. The son went back to playing outside fiddling around with this and that around the house, at some point finding a hammer and as little boys do commenced to pound on things, as he was hammering he accidentally hit the father’s new car. At first he was shocked by what he had done but noticed how neat the dent was he had created, so at this point continued to beautify his father’s new car with a row of fancy embellishments in a perfect row around the vehicle. Being proud of his accomplishment ran to get his father to show off his artistic ability, as the father hit the door to the carport he was shocked to see dents surrounding his new car. In the heat of the moment the father picked up the hammer and commenced to do his own hammering. As they arrived at the hospital after the incident the son was rushed into surgery while the father waited in the waiting room worried for his son and for the consequences of his actions. After a few hours of surgery the father was brought to his son’s room where he waited for his son to wake from the anesthesia. As the son awoke his father grasped him holding him tightly in his arms as he cried. The son with unconditional love comforted his father saying it was ok, at which point the son looking down and then up at his father asked… “Daddy when can I have my hands back?

Saturday, February 25, 2012

Next time you hear.......“I can’t!!!” Show them this...

Next time you hear.......“I can’t!!!”
Show them this...
Touching the sky without arms
After looking at this email, all I can say is WOW..
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Never look down on anybody, unless you're helping them up.
"Life without God is like an unsharpened pencil - it has no point."

WISHING YOU LOVE IN YOUR HEART...
PEACE IN YOUR SOUL..
AND JOY IN YOUR LIFE.....ALWAYS...



Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Affordable Home Improvement: More than Just the Hammer


Affordable Home Improvement: More than Just the Hammer


Guest Post: Ella Davidson of Coupons.org wrote this post. Coupons is a couponing site that strives to give consumers the necessary tools to save money.
From ten cents for a nail all the way up to hundreds of thousands of dollars for add-ons to the house. Home improvements come in a wide array of budgets but one fact stands true: your wallet will take a hit from that hammer too. The good news is that you can really cut down on the impact on your wallet, but you need to look at the improvements correctly, plan ahead, and use the right tools for the project at hand. If you do those three things correctly then you can save money beforehand, during, and after the project.
The good news is that if you are reading this then you are already taking steps in the right direction. The cost of labor is a large expense when it comes to home improvement. If you plan on doing the project yourself, then you have already saved yourself tens to thousands of dollars. Now all you have left to purchase is raw materials. But there is one more step first.
You can really cut down on costs if you understand the project and do all the necessary homework before you get to the hammer. Try reading some of the many home improvement magazines that exist, such as Remodeling, Journal of Light Construction, and Builder. If those did not answer all of your questions, you can check here for a list of more magazines. You can use the information garnered from the magazines in tandem with the Internet and free advice from professionals at your local home center to get a grasp of the project.
This pre-planning can help avoid the costs of unnecessary engineers, architects, and builders. Remember, safety first though. Do not avoid these professionals if they are needed for your project. But even if you do end up using their help, your pre-planning will expedite the process, increase understanding with both parties, and save you money by cutting down on the professionals’ time.
Now comes the time to start the project. This means buying the raw materials. Make sure you do your research as you would with any project. Avoid picking products just because they have the lowest price. Sales on superior construction material are rare because items like wood and paint do not go out of fashion next season or even next year. Research your items such as the brand, the models, its durability, and its size to avoid complications later. You can use the Internet for this process since many retailers provide options to compare prices and the aforementioned characteristics.
But if you circumvent this step then you can end up with extra expenses that come from wasted material and wasted time. Too much or too little of a material and you will end up wasting time, energy, and resources. If you pick the wrong type then next year it could ruin, break, or fail.
However, this is also good new for you. A new up and coming industry within construction is reclaimed materials. This is where leftover or unnecessary materials from projects and homes are reclaimed and sold to the consumer at a cheaper price. The kinds of reclaimed materials are varied but can include recycled paint, doors, and cabinets. Second Use is a good example of a Seattle based company that has been working with reclaimed materials since 1994. Make sure you check out reclaimed materials to see if there is anything you can check off your list.
While you are doing all of this planning, try and save money after the fact as well. If you are remodeling your kitchen try using double-pane or triple-pane windows that will save you energy. If you shop at the right time you can get rebates from states, cities, or companies if you go green. This means that if you add a solar panel to your kitchen roof, then you could practically be getting paid to remodel.
If that is too much, then check out the U.S. Department of Energy’s simple checklist that can be found here. It can help you cut energy costs and it ranges from turning off lights to landscape design to insulation and window replacement.
In the end, make sure that you are valuing your own time as well. Avoid becoming a contractor yourself, but you can really save yourself a bundle if you take all of this into consideration. Take these tips, make sure to fully study the improvements, plan ahead, and use the right tools and materials. Then you can give your wallet a break while your hammer does the work.

Saturday, February 11, 2012

Guest Blogger: Simples Ideas for Going Green in Your Own Backyard

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Guest Blogger: Simples Ideas for Going Green in Your Own Backyard

Jan 31, 2012 06:30 am





Guest Blogger #352, Entry #930, January 31, 2012
It’s no secret that more people are incorporating green living into their lives than ever. If you’ve been waiting for the perfect opportunity to jump in on the green movement, your backyard might be the place to start. When you look out your window today and see an average backyard with everyday features, there’s no reason why you can’t transform it into a green haven that leads to bigger and better things. There’s lots of opportunity for any type of backyard whether it’s relatively bare or already filled with fantastic trendy features. And it’s not just about saving the earth or preserving resources, there are practical reasons for going green that can help you to save money as well. Best of all, it might just turn into a project that results in a tremendous source of pride for your entire family. Here are some simple ideas that can help you to get started with a greener backyard.
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Re-Size Your Grass Space

Watering a lawn and backyard grass space takes a tremendous toll on our most precious natural resource. It’s not uncommon for particularly hot areas to put a ban on watering during the summer. And even when there is no such ban in place, you have to wonder about exactly how much water you’re using every year to keep all that grass looking healthy. You might want to think about scaling down the amount of grass you have in your backyard and possibly replacing it with something that uses up less resources. You might think that it’s strange to “go green” by actually eliminating the vegetation, but the world will do just fine without your bigger backyard. It’s far better to find a better purpose for all that water it uses up.

A Recycling Station

It’s amazing to think that some parts of North America aren’t totally on board with recycling yet. Hopefully you live in a community where there are incentives to recycle all manner of everyday household items. Even if you don’t, there’s no reason why you can’t start separating normal garbage from things that can be used again. Recycling is a great way to get the kids on the action since they can help out as well. You can create a full-fledged station design for education, and there’s no reason why he can’t be fun at the same time.

Compost

Along the lines of setting up a recycling station, you can do the same thing for organic waste. One of the major objections to forming a compost bin is the perceived mess. But imagine what happens when all that extra garbage gets put into landfills. Separating organic garbage and dealing with it in your own backyard helps to reduce the stress on landfills and the environment. Even if you don’t use the resulting fertilizer yourself, there are plenty of places that will happily accept it.
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A Green Garden

There are many benefits to starting up a garden of your own even if you don’t have green thumbs quite yet. For many people, they discover that it’s a relaxing activity where they can progress at their own pace. Even better, when you put enough time into the project you’ll end up with produce you can use in your own kitchen. There are heavy transportation and environmental costs associated with traditional farming, and simply getting all that progress to your grocery store uses up a lot of energy. You can take a little bit of the stress off the situation by using your own vegetables that will also serve as a fun alternative for your daily menu.

Energy Saving

a lot of people ignore daily energy-saving habits in their backyard. And yet people make sure to turn off all the lights in their own home or reduce water usage while brushing their teeth. You should have the same diligent attitude when it comes to your own backyard and make sure that any patio lights, outdoor heating, toolshed sources, or water hoses are turned off when not in use. You might also want to put aside your old traditional charcoal grill and opt for a natural gas model instead. There are plenty of gas grills on the market that can easily use a backyard line to save you money while giving you enough power to cook awesome feasts as well. And as you implement a few simple energy-saving matters, you might look into the future to see if wind and solar power might be reasonable options as well.
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This article about green backyards comes to us from our friends at gasgrillsandbbq.com where you can find reviews on natural gas grills that would fit the green model. Or if you’re not quite ready to make the transition yet, you can also find information on buying a hybrid charcoal grill that offers you the best of both worlds.
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Guest Blogger: How to Choose a Patio Scheme to Fit your Design Style

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Guest Blogger: How to Choose a Patio Scheme to Fit your Design Style

Jan 30, 2012 07:00 am





Guest Blogger #351, Entry #929, January 30, 2012
As unique as your personality is, so are designs and decorations for your outdoor patio. Are you a bird enthusiast who likes one side of the patio lined with bird feeders and flowers to attract hummers? Perhaps you want the focus to be a family patio with a fire pit to roast marshmallows. Most important to a premier chef is a stainless steel grill that does charcoal and propane, plus a matching storage cabinet to stash the extras. Be creative as you decorate these three distinct patio types: the traditional brick patio that is adjacent to your home, a patio deck and a nontraditional fishpond and gazebo combo.
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Traditional Brick Patio

If you choose a brick patio, include a central fire pit, a three-foot high privacy brick wall and special rope lighting. The flooring itself is of patio brick, either uniformly or irregularly sized, depending on the look desired. The reddish brick retaining wall is stacked, layered and offset, which makes it ideal for placing a couple of sections of window box planters on top. These planters, filled with vines that trail, soften the look of the brick. Intersperse the vines with yellow and violet pansies and pink and purple petunias. Color the outside of the retaining wall with shrubs and hostas. Place fuchsias in freestanding hanging baskets. These red trumpet type blossoms along with red beebalm entice the most timid of the hummingbirds. A fountain to one side, glass block lighting on the top of the walls in the corners, and wrought iron furniture with similar style outdoor umbrellas gives your patio an elegant look.

Patio Deck

Perhaps you prefer a deck, made of wood or composite decking, complete with railing and benches. You’ll never have to paint the composite decking; just wash it off! Build benches all around the sides of the deck, not just for people to sit on, but also for storage of barbeque accessories, cushions, or outdoor game equipment. While the stainless steel grill and cabinet sit to one side, the redwood patio furniture with cushions takes center stage. If a large group of friends gather, place the additional plastic chairs on the lawn. Put marigolds or short zinnias in planters by the sides of the benches and on top of the railings. For your evening glow, use torches, rope lighting or lanterns.
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Nontraditional Combo

Be a little nontraditional and follow a brick pathway from the house, out and around a fishpond and over to a gazebo. Dot the pebble pathway and surrounding landscape with holly bushes, day lilies and small ornamental trees. Circle the pond of bright orange, black and white coy fish with green plants. Continue the patterned brick way up to a screened-in gazebo. Decorate the gazebo with bright annuals on the outside and attractive wicker furniture on the inside. Paint some simple wooden Adirondack chairs and put them here and there along the pathway. These particular chairs go with any casual patio setting and seem to invite family fun. They can be painted in stripes, flowers, polka dots, cut-up summer fruits and even red, white and blue.
Kelly writes for Patio Shoppers, focusing on patio design using outdoor furnishings.
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